I can hardly believe it—another year has flown by, and here we are, teetering on the edge of December again. The stores are alive with Christmas trees, twinkling lights, and all things festive. Santa Claus parades are in full swing, and I am feeling the holiday hustle already. It’s almost too easy to get lost in the glittering chaos of consumerism—the must-haves, the trends, the endless lists.
Last year, however, my kids pulled me aside and offered a progressive idea: Simplify. They asked the question that stopped me in my tracks: “What if we didn’t do the overspending and marathon shopping, and just focused on being present?” Intriguing, right? So, we decided to try it.
At first, it felt... unsettling. Like I was missing out or forgetting something important. The parking lots were jammed with frantic shoppers, my friends checked off their endless gift lists, and the annual debate of what to buy Uncle Bob or Grandma played on repeat. But I stuck to our plan—a brave new way to approach Christmas.
As a family of readers (yes, even cookbooks count!), we landed on a simple idea: a book exchange. Each of us drew a name from a hat, spent no more than $50, and selected a book we knew they’d love. But here’s the magic part—every book included a handwritten inscription, personal and heartfelt.
When we exchanged those books, something incredible happened. It wasn’t just the books or the savings (though dropping my gift budget from $1,000 to $50 was a game-changer). It was the moments: the quiet power of words thoughtfully chosen, the joy of giving something meaningful, the relief of stepping off the consumer treadmill.
At the end of the holidays last year, I realized just how far I’d let all the past Christmas's drift into chaos. At that moment, I realized we reclaimed it, by focusing on connection, thoughtfulness, and presence. And this new tradition? It’s here to stay. Here’s to many more Christmases where less truly becomes more.
If a book exchange isn't for you, but you love the idea of creating your own "less is more - Christmas", here are some ideas for you to consider and maybe even try this holiday season.
Play a Gift-Giving Game
Instead of buying multiple gifts, try games like Secret Santa, choose a fun theme for the gifts and set a maximum spending amount.
Give Your Time
Instead of gifts, offer your time—pet-sitting, babysitting, or just helping with chores—it's meaningful and budget-friendly.
Re-gift
Got something you’ll never use? Re-gift it to someone who will appreciate it!
Donate
Instead of gifts, suggest a group donation to a charity or cause.
Get Crafty
Make homemade gifts, or bake something - who doesn't love homemade cookies?
Gift Experiences
Rather than material gifts, combine the family’s gift money for a fun experience like a trip, or maybe an online streaming subscription.
Send E-cards
Save on postage and be eco-friendly by sending e-cards instead of traditional holiday cards.
Try Potluck Gatherings
Make your holiday meals more affordable and fun by having potluck-style dinners with family and friends.
I know it might be hard to imagine, and the fear of disappointment is real—no one wants to feel that on Christmas Day. Believe me, I felt the same way last year, just before Christmas morning. But when the day arrived, all I felt was love, joy, and the true spirit of the season. I promise, you’ll feel it too.
Tracy x
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